4. Love
4.2. The Nature of Service
Many often get turned off when their offered help was turned down, this means love must be free without agenda and allows rejection. While in concept it might sound like Agape, the reality often comes in forms of struggle with focus, trauma, self-inflicting toughness, mindsets, and philosophy. Yet, once one remove all those and learn how to organize their brain memories, we can indeed either help and not help others freely without burden of doing it or not doing it, like a kid who wants to draw freely when asked.